Humans are in a constant state of flux and development. Attempting analytical deconstruction of one’s psyche is like trying to hit a moving target. Feelings and perceptions are always changing. Decoding my own psyche to reach new realizations sometimes yields unexpected insights. Polyamory is a subject I’ve taken up with a heightened level of interest […]
Many people these days self-identify as “poly” – shorthand for their personal views on sexual exclusivity in relationships, i.e. they do not choose to practice monogamy, ostensibly without moral or ethical dilemma. While this may seem like flimsy justification of one’s desire to be promiscuous without consequences (and sometimes is), there are those for which […]
I worked for two days on a post about polyamory and realized that it really wasn’t reflecting what I wanted to say. (For the unfamiliar, being “poly” refers to a lifestyle in which a person may be in distinctively separate loving relationships with more than one person.) Instead, this open letter to you contains what […]
You probably have a Social Security Number, the lifelong taxpayer identifier. But you have another SSN, one that is not assigned by any organization and is only learned after some years of life experience: Your very own individual Sexual Security Number. This is a group of numbers that may represent some of your views on and attitudes toward sex, and could be remarkably accurate at identifying you.