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Ghostly Narcissism

I still don’t believe it. I’ve been ghosted. Me. Ghosting, for those unfamiliar with the term, is what happens when one member of a relationship decides to simply cease all contact without the courtesy of a “fuck you” or other indication that they don’t want to see the other one anymore. Not exactly a break-up, […]

Your Brain on Sex

What do you think about during sex? Chances are, nothing and everything. It’s all the things we think about before and after agreeing to sex that can be so debilitating. Learn to let go. Just sharing a fuck doesn’t signify a relationship. Anyone I would fuck once I would fuck twice. Otherwise I’d be over-thinking […]

Special Needs Kids and Sex

One would think that the world of sex therapy is pretty mundane since there’s nothing new under the sun. Same old hang-ups, same old bang-ups. One would be wrong. The world is constantly changing. Should you introduce your special needs child to sex at some point in their life, if ever? This question came to […]

Virginity Lost and Found

Author Peggy Orenstein was a guest on NPR’s Fresh Air recently, discussing her new book Girls & Sex. The last paragraph in the synopsis on NPR’s Website really rang a bell for me. The topic was virginity. After running through a list of possibilities, one young woman had concluded that females lose their virginity when […]

Austin, Sexas, Part I

Zen here. No, that’s not a typo up there. I’ve decided Austin must be the horniest place in Texas. When I came here a couple of years ago I really thought Texas would be a lot like Moralton. I had heard about how it’s a big part of the Bible Belt and how it supposed […]

Kriss-Kross Kissing

It’s Zen! I’m back and better than ever! I didn’t know how hot it would get in Austin but the locals tell me I haven’t seen real heat yet. I beg to differ. I recently saw something so hot it fried my eggs. (Like that one? Thanks, Jenny!) Last time I told you about Pete […]

Toy Party Revisited

Hi everyone, it’s Zen! Well, it’s been three months and no one has walked up and asked about the toy party or the blog or anything. Luckily, Father doesn’t use the Internet. I’ve still got my job. And I haven’t turned into a human lightning rod. So I called Pete a few weeks after my […]

Toy Party Redux

Hey y’all, it’s Zen. Well, I really stepped in it now. Father is going to kill me and so is God. I’m done. Toast. History. And I didn’t even make it to 25! I keep thinking about the toy party last weekend at Zora’s house. My mind has been there ever since, floating like a […]